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“Pray the Gay Away” (and Other Bullsh*t That Gave You Anxiety and Depression)
What happens when being loved by your church means hiding who you are? This post explores the connection between queer identity, spiritual shame, and mental health.
When Faith Tells You Your Feelings Are a Problem: Untangling Emotional Shame from Religious Trauma
Growing up in high-control religion, I was taught that emotions like anger and sadness were sinful. This post explores how those beliefs impact survivors—and how healing can begin.
5 Things Religious Trauma Survivors Say in Therapy (That You Might Relate To)
If you’ve ever wondered whether your experience “counts” as religious trauma, or you’ve felt like no one would understand, this post is for you.
When Following God’s Will Means Losing Yourself: A Religious Trauma Therapist Explains
If seeking “God’s will” meant losing touch with what you want, you’re not alone. A religious trauma therapist explores the cost of obedience and how to reclaim your voice.
Freedom, But Only If You Obey: The Catch-22 of High-Control Religion
You were promised “freedom in Christ,” but only if you obeyed without question. In this post, I explore the spiritual catch-22 of high-control religion — and what real freedom actually feels like.